my friend read the blog that I written before this one, apparently it was harsh. In my defense, at 200a in the morning I am always harsh. His defense is that females do have a secret motive when it comes to guys, its not a lie.
Well, guys have one too so why can't women?
I have noticed that at my age (college aged or college graduates) that women and men have two separate goals when it comes to accomplishing these "hidden agendas."
Women will manipulate their ways into wallets while men will manipulate their ways into a woman's vagina.
[Yeah I said it]
This isn't a blog about how or why, however, this is more a blog about "which" agenda is more dangerous? Yes, the sex vs. money conversation. Which is more dangerous?
Which pisses people off more when they find out they have been used?
etc....
The answer? It is all in the eye of the beholder and you have to ask yourself this: who's getting fucked over? I can say that when you're the one who is being used for sex, you would rather have been used for money and vice versa.
Money and sex can both be emotionally charged, if you allow it. For example, if you lend money to a close friend who you thought was going to repay you and they didn't. It hurts. If a person has sex with you under false pretense and then you find out the truth, that also hurts too. Being used is being used, no matter what its for.
On the collegiate level the stories could go like this:
Guy is dating girl, spends money on her and then finds out that's all she's using him for. Sucks for him.
On the flip side, girl is dating guy who is very interested for sex. Girl overhears that sex is all he wants. Sucks for her too.
Hate it all you want, men and women may have secret agendas but if its sex or money they are after, it definitely hurts the same.
2 comments:
what people dont realize is that their are a lot more important things in this world then getting laid and having money. The college community is just centralized on these two concepts......
true! I'm just pointing out that more often than not, when college aged males and females are emotionally manipulating a person of the opposite gender (or the same, as in the case of homosexuals)more often than not its for either sex (males) or money (women). This blog wasn't meant to be a generalization but just pointing out some observations that I have made on a personal level. :-)
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