why?

It's 2:10am and I am awake, I wanted to go asleep 15 minutes ago but 2 minutes before that... I found this article. I just HAD to comment:

http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/relationship-issues/articles/bad-date-bad-hook-up?link=rel&dom=yah_life&src=syn&con=blog&mag=mar&ha=1

[The gist, guy and girl hook up after a drunk night at a party. Seen from both sides, before the hook-up and after]

Why do guys sometimes think that girls have an secret motive (I know its a generalization but its 215a and I don't feeeeeeeeeeeel like making this egalitarian!) when it comes to females? Or that they like to think that we (women) are more emotionally involved than we actually are? SERIOUSLY?! Or that we are more involved than they are, when really.... its the same. Get over the ego and fess up to a few things:

1) The blame is on both sides.
2) Feelings are mutual
3) Grow up.
and 4) Stop pulling that victim crap when it comes to mistakes like the one listed above, unless further evidence shows the contrary (the article admits a silenced mutual agreement) the act was wanted on both sides.

ggggggggrrrrrrrrrrr..... the article pissed me off because the male (while drunk) rationalized that he wanted sex or a gift for his b-day from the woman and 'sensing' that she wanted some too dove in. The next morning he got scared because he liked some other girl and then tried to fool himself into thinking she wanted more. When in actuality it was just humorless talk fueled by awkwardness and a hope to remain friends.

Moral of my blog: Sometimes, as people, we need to stop looking for that hidden meaning in conversations or acts because in reality they can just be random.



In other news: Flash Mob on Oprah!